How do we even get onto the subject of wondering what different flowers symbolize? I guess I can start by sharing one of my weekly routines.
Every Saturday, my husband and I enjoy a leisurely walk around our town. If you drove by us, you might think, “What is that crazy woman doing, running around taking pictures of every single flower?” And it’s true! I love stopping to check them out and take pictures as we work our way through the neighborhood.
But I’ve never been super interested in knowing their names or what they mean. Recently, I thought – that could be fun! So, I decided to improve my knowledge on this subject and to learn what different flowers symbolize.
There are some with obvious meanings that we’re all probably familiar with. For instance, when I received my first dozen red roses for my thirteenth birthday, I was so excited because I knew that must have meant true love, ha! But I didn’t know that baby’s breath means “everlasting love,” lilacs represent “first signs of love,” and daisies mean “playfulness and happiness.” Did you? As it turns out, there’s a Secret Language of Flowers, and every flower has a unique and special meaning.
A little history of the meaning of flowers
Called floriography, flowers have been used as a means to express emotions for thousands of years. This custom was extremely popular in the 19th century in Victorian England and across the sea in the United States. With their strict social customs, the Victorians turned to flowers to help them say what they couldn’t say out loud. (Isn’t that fascinating? My how things have changed..)
Master gardener Marie Iannotti shares that Shakespeare used flowers to convey emotion in his storylines. And, that “Even dashing Leopold, in the movie ‘Kate and Leopold,’ knew better than to send a woman orange lilies.” (they signify hate!)
How to use flowers to symbolize feelings
Today, it might be fun and creative to give a themed bouquet as a special treat to someone you love (or don’t love – depending on the flower ;-) along with hints for figuring out the meaning. If a friend or loved one is embarking on a new adventure, you could give them a custom bouquet of heather (good luck), camellia (loveliness), and blue iris (signifying “I believe in you”).
You could also make a statement by keeping things simple. For an enduring, loving friendship, consider a small bouquet of alstroemeria (devotion and friendship). Or, if you are in a long-lasting loving relationship, send a bouquet of tulips (happy years!). Lastly, if you are in the throes of passion with someone you recently met, have an orchid delivered (romantic love that tends to have racy connotations).
Now that you know so much more about how flowers communicate emotions, you can enjoy selecting the right one for the moment at hand.
See if you can use this list to “Say it with flowers!”
List of flowers and their meanings:
Alstroemeria: Devotion and friendship
Apple Blossom: Good fortune
Baby’s Breath: Everlasting love
Blue Iris: “I believe in you,” – wisdom, hope, faith.
Calla Lily: Magnificent beauty
Camellia: Perfected loveliness
Cyclamen: It’s over, goodbye
Dahlia: Dignity, confidence, and strength a bouquet says gratitude.
Daisy: Playfulness and happiness.
Gardenia: Secret love
Gladiolus: Strong character and splendid beauty
Heather (pink): Good luck
Jasmine: Cheerful and graceful
Lilac: First sign of love
Lily: purity and innocence (white); prosperity (pink)
Lily of the Valley: sweetness and purity; pure love
Marigold: Cruelty or jealousy
Orchid: Romantic love that tends to have racy connotations.
Queen Anne’s Lace: Fantasy
Rose: A fully open rose represents beauty; a peach one stands for friendship.
Sweet Pea: Pleasure and gratitude: “Thank you for the time we spent together.”
Tulip: Happy years. Purple is associated with royalty
Yellow Daylilies: Coquetry – flirtatious
Zinnia: Thoughts of absent friends
Links and resources:
- Flower Meanings from The Old Farmer’s Almanac
- The Language of Flowers
- The Secret Meaning of Herbs
- The Meaning of Flowers – International Feng Shui School
- Oak Spring Garden Foundation
Flowers can bring so much happiness to someone. See a few things that bring happiness to me here.