Sowing Seeds of Love: Starting New Relationships in Spring

I’m writing this story on a plane, heading home from a quick anniversary celebration to South Florida. And while enjoying a warm and sunny first week in April, I realized that I never made the connection: So many new beginnings and meaningful new relationships have started for me in the spring.

I used to believe that happiness was something that could only be achieved if all the pieces of my life were perfect. But I’ve come to understand that happiness is not about having a perfect life, but rather finding joy and contentment in the imperfections. It’s about appreciating what you have while

Two of the big ones for me have been starting my practice on April 1 and meeting my husband on April 7.

You may be thinking, “Who cares? What value does this have?” And I get that. But I’m looking deeper, seeing the patterns that lead up to these big moments and what they have in common. I’m also reflecting on how interconnected we are with the larger picture happening around us.

So, bear with me! Let’s take a closer look.

New relationships: First, April 7th. The day I met my husband.

Before we dig in, let’s think about our mental state as we begin to see more of a golden orb shining in the sky.

According to Laura of The Smallest Light, “Spring is known as ‘the season of hope’ because it symbolizes the resurgence of life after the inevitable challenges of winter. This rising energy generally helps us feel more optimistic and driven to make the most of our days.”

When I met my husband, in April of 2017, I felt like I was ready.

I’d experienced the dark, thoughtful, reflective days of winter. By the spring of that year, I was feeling hopeful. I remember noticing how my outlook had changed.

Hopeful is the keyword. A lightness and levity come from the new beginnings happening everywhere in April. That lift in energy might be the very thing that opens us up to new opportunities and even a powerful love connection.

A fun way of seeing spring: Time to come out of hibernation.

“Once spring comes, serotonin stops hibernating, and that’s good for the romantics among us. A 2011 study published in Biological Psychiatry found that serotonin can make a person more receptive to intimacy and more eager to be part of an interdependent relationship” from Pacific Prime.

It’s no wonder that spring has long been associated with new relationships. As the days get longer and brighter, our moods tend to shift. We feel more open, receptive, and eager to connect with others.

Another major new relationship started on April 1st: Buying my practice.

Another key new beginning that happened for me in the spring was purchasing my practice. It was a long and winding journey that started in July of 2010. I visited Boston on a girls’ trip completely out of the blue. We planned to go to Montreal, and at the last moment we charted a new course.

When arriving I left an immediate connection. I knew that I would find an opportunity and move to this welcoming and beautiful city. 

Surprisingly, I found the practice I wanted to buy right away. But what I wasn’t prepared for was the waiting game. I still had two seasons to work through. I spent the entire season of fall strategizing and planning. Together with my attorney we evaluated and appraised. Then came winter. This was a time of inner and outer work. Papers had to be shuffled, systems updated, etc. Until finally, on April 1st, I received the key to the practice!

Looking back now, it all made sense. The timing was perfect.

Things have a way of starting new in the spring. So, what about you?

Spring is a time for new beginnings and growth. It’s a season of renewal, both in nature and in our own lives. 

If you’re feeling stuck or stagnant, take inspiration from the changing seasons. Just as nature sheds its old layers to make way for something new, we can let go of what no longer serves us and open ourselves up to new possibilities.

It could involve taking a leap of faith, like I did by moving to Boston, or simply making small changes in your daily routine. Whatever it may be, trust that this springtime energy will support and guide you toward greater happiness and fulfillment.

What do you think? Have you had important new relationships start in the spring? Are you open to them now?

Let me know in the comments below!